Being 8,000 miles of so from family is one of the very few aspects of being in Australia that Kristi and I experience as a drawback. This week, I was reminded of the fact that we are far, far away from many people with whom we are emotionally close.
My youngest brother, who had a heart attack a few months ago, was helicoptered to a hospital in Texas one morning this week after he woke up and found himself virtually unable to breathe.
I got the news of his being in an Intensive Care Unit by email from another brother, but I’d shut down my computer and gone to bed about the time he sent the message, so 10 hours had passed before I learned that I had cause to worry.
Then I began using the phone. Many calls later, I know now that Mike is feeling fine and going home tomorrow, although nobody seems to know why he suddenly had the problem.
My relief is palpable. And my appreciation of satellite technology and cheap long distance calling is real.
I pre-pay for calls I make on my gotalk “ezichat” phone. An automated female voice always tells me how much money and time I have left, before connecting to the number I’ve dialled in the United States, and I’m currently down to less than $10 in my account, but that’s nearly 900 minutes of talking.
So I just had a leisurely chat with Mike in his hospital room. The connection was perfect and he sounded good. Now I’m feeling fine, too.
Technology brings with it problems, but cheap and excellent calling from one hemisphere to another? That is something for which I am deeply grateful.
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Sam 08.12.08 at 4:31 am
Just found your blog today and I am glad to hear that your brother is doing ok.
As I am deaf, I am curious - does using the phone make you feel closer or even further away, if you see what I mean?
Another question for you, I am shamelessly doing lots of Australian property window shopping as I love their house styles, but….quite a few seem to have bars in the corner of their lounges - do they really like their beers or what? This just seems rather tacky to me, perhaps I am too British!!
Bob 08.12.08 at 5:13 pm
Welcome to my blog, Sam. Using the phone definitely makes me feel closer, especially since the service is normally excellent. It really does seem as if the person I’m talking with could be in the next room.
I’m sorry to hear the phone is not an option open to you.
About bars in the corners of lounges… I haven’t seen many here in the homes we’ve visited. No more, I think, than one might find elsewhere.
Aussies are sometimes boastful about their drinking and there are alcohol-related problems here (including binge drinking), but I’ve read that the per-capita consumption of beer is actually declining. — Bob